W
hen Ricky Martin posed with his twin sons on the cover of July's
People en
Espanol, the image of an openly gay Latino father was on display for
millions to see.
While his coming forward about his homosexuality a few months
earlier had people talking, its impact wasn't as significant to many
gay Latino men as the image of Martin and his young family.
"It
was monumental," says San Francisco-based writer Lorenzo Herrera y
Lozano, who's covered gay and lesbian issues for years.
"Here's another image of a Latino family...(Martin) is so visible in
the mainstream and such a part of our pop culture that that cover
could have a monumental impact," Herrera y Lozano tells Conexion by
phone.
Martin's sons are why he wrote an open letter to his fans in April
sharing his reasons on why he was publicly revealing his
homosexuality.
"This is just what I need especially now that I am the father of two
beautiful boys that are so full of light and who with their outlook
teach me new things everyday," he had posted on his website last
year. "To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly
diminish the glow that my kids were born with. Enough is enough."
He
went on to say, "Every word that I write in this letter is born out
of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this
is a solid step towards my inner peace and a vital part of my
evolution."
Martin, whose sons Valentino and Matteo were born via surrogate, is
hardly alone as a homosexual Latino parent in this country.
More than a third of cohabiting same-sex couples in San Antonio are
raising children, making it the city with the highest percentage of
gay and lesbian parents in the United States, according to the new
census data analyzed by the Williams Institute at the University of
California, Los Angeles.
Of
same-sex couples in San Antonio, 34 percent are raising children
younger than 18, according to the study that used census data
sampling known as American Community Survey.
In
the 2005 study "Hispanic and Latino Same-Sex Couple Households in
the United States: A Report from the 2000 Census," the number of gay
Latino couples raising children is more than three times the rate of
white non-Latino male same-sex couples.
Some of the highest concentrations of gay Latino couples raising
families are in Texas and California, according to the same 2005
study conducted in part by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
Policy Institute and the National Latino/a Coalition.
San
Antonio-born entertainer
Jade
Esteban Estrada, who's worked with the Gay and Lesbian
Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) and has included stories about
being gay and Latino in his stand-up routines, has followed Martin's
career for years. He says the desire of any Latino, either gay or
straight, to have a family is rooted in the values of the Latino
culture.
"We
love our families. For many of us, that's what's most important in
life," he says.
Estrada
sees Martin's coming out last March as "not a big deal," but
recognizes its significance for some.
"Martin's coming out is not a big thing...What we care about these
days is not who's gay and who's not, but the fact he's being open
about his sexuality and is a single father that could really mean
something to those yearning to have what their heterosexual brothers
and sisters have - a family, a home, a life like others have, "
Estrada
says.